fix: multiple bug fixes

isolated users, db backup, weird disconnect issues for long voice sessions,

server/src/runtime-paths.ts

@@ -1,6 +1,9 @@
 import fs from 'fs';
+import os from 'os';
 import path from 'path';
 
+const PACKAGED_DATA_DIRECTORY_NAME = 'MetoYou Server';
+
 type PackagedProcess = NodeJS.Process & { pkg?: unknown };
 
 function uniquePaths(paths: string[]): string[] {
@@ -21,6 +24,33 @@ export function resolveRuntimePath(...segments: string[]): string {
   return path.join(getRuntimeBaseDir(), ...segments);
 }
 
+function resolvePackagedDataDirectory(): string {
+  const homeDirectory = os.homedir();
+
+  switch (process.platform) {
+    case 'win32':
+      return path.join(
+        process.env.APPDATA || path.join(homeDirectory, 'AppData', 'Roaming'),
+        PACKAGED_DATA_DIRECTORY_NAME
+      );
+    case 'darwin':
+      return path.join(homeDirectory, 'Library', 'Application Support', PACKAGED_DATA_DIRECTORY_NAME);
+    default:
+      return path.join(
+        process.env.XDG_DATA_HOME || path.join(homeDirectory, '.local', 'share'),
+        PACKAGED_DATA_DIRECTORY_NAME
+      );
+  }
+}
+
+export function resolvePersistentDataPath(...segments: string[]): string {
+  if (!isPackagedRuntime()) {
+    return resolveRuntimePath(...segments);
+  }
+
+  return path.join(resolvePackagedDataDirectory(), ...segments);
+}
+
 export function resolveProjectRootPath(...segments: string[]): string {
   return path.resolve(__dirname, '..', '..', ...segments);
 }